by Mike
(London, UK)
Hi
I started prostate massages three years ago. Initially there was a sense of pain, but as the health of my prostate improved, the pain totally disappeared and I now I no longer get any pain whatsoever when massaging my prostate, which is great.
As for other health benefits, my PSA reading has fallen significantly, and another side effect is I no longer wake or need to go to the loo at night.
Overall, I feel huge health improvements, but there is one concern......
I feel no sexual arousal or any sense of orgasm whatsoever when I do a prostate massage. This is despite “taking time”, relaxing and so on - in other words, despite being chilled and relaxed I still do not reach any state of sexual desire etc, which is of course disappointing as when I read this website it talks about prostate orgasms being very intense etc
Im in my mid 50’s and I’m 6ft. I use aeneros Helix Syn and aeneros progasm prostate massagers.
Is there another prostate massagers I should try? Or do you have any suggestions as to how I can get to that elusive prostate orgasm, or at least feel I am getting near to it?
Kind regards
Mike
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Ron here...
Men are all different. Forget about trying to experience a prostate orgasm. A regular orgasm is just fine! We all experience massage benefits differently. Sounds like you had some excellent health benefits from the prostate massage.
Reduce the frequency of your prostate massage a lot and also your ejaculation to at most once every 5-6 days or longer. Learn injaculation if you want more frequency. Let your prostate continue to heal and count your blessings. You be be surprised over time that you will feel even better.
